How do you look at situations? How do you see others? How do they see you? How do you feel about how they see you? How do they feel about how you see them? Well, not to confuse you but not everything is how it seems or how you see it. Sometimes you have to look at things from the outside looking in.  There are many ways to go about this. You can simply observe the behavior of others. You can make mental notes or you can tell by their actions. Are you included or are you not in the know? Do you feel like you fit in? Are you aware of social events?  Why aren’t you aware and or included in this situations? How does it make you feel? It makes you feel unwanted and wondering.  How about you? Do you see people you know talking and gathering and wonder why didn’t they ask you? Why you aren’t a part of it.  You would not dare walk over and because they are thinking, “What is she doing here?” “Or what are they doing here?” If it were me I would just keep to myself and continue to feel that emptiness.  You would think you would leave that behind in childhood. News flash adults do it to. You wonder is it me? Then you think they just do not like me. After awhile you believe something is wrong with you.  How do you feel? Has something like this happened to you?  How do you deal with it? Go out and live your life make other friends. Either way, you are still carrying that hurt and it stays with you. Why are they in the know? Why can’t you fit in? What is it about you that doesn’t fit?  Let me know because I don’t. Now onto the next life lesson.