Whatever happens to you in life or no matter what anyone says do NOT let anyone define you. Do not let anyone tell you who you think you should be.  Do whatever it takes to make you be JUST YOU! There is no one else like you. You are the star of your own life. You are in control of what you do. I think sometimes we are so busy impressing others we forget who we are. You were not put on this earth to please everyone. Not everyone will like you and not everyone will accept you. When you find people that do you will know it. They will not judge you or change you. They will like you for you.  It hurts when you are not included in a gathering  or a simple invite.  You wonder why me what did I do? Why am I not in the know? Who gets to be in the know? I can tell you first hand that it hurts. I have been there and I have watched many people from a distance.  Make your own party, create your own fun. Be with people who want to be with you.  Stop worrying about those who don’t.  If  those do not like you for you than move on. Why are you getting exhausted thinking about it? It is human nature. We are curious we want to know what makes someone like you?  You can spend so much time thinking about why not me or you can do something about it. What are you going to do? To some of us it is still a work in progress. Others will move on and just accept they are not accepted. Some will make their own fun . What will you do?  I can tell you first hand that is not easy. Some things as a child still haunt me today. Thank you for reading my blog. Now onto the next life lesson.