Month: April 2020 Page 1 of 2

Do you have a hero? Who do you admire? Is it someone close to you? I think we all admire someone in our lives.  There is always someone that we think is special. Maybe it is your mom or dad. Maybe it is a sibling or a best friend. It can be who ever you feel deserves the title of hero.  Heroes do not have to wear capes and save us from villains.  I believe we have the ability to be heroes each and every one of us.

I know we have a lot going on right now and everyone is saying our medical workers, doctors, first responders, and nurses are our heroes. Haven’t they always been? I think so.  My Dad and mom were both in the medical field. My Mom was a RN nurse and my Dad was a cancer specialist. To a lot of people they were heroes.  They put their lives on the line for all kinds of people and saved lives.  Except to me I always wanted my mom home when I got home from school like all the other mommies ‘in the neighborhood.  When it rained I always wished she was there to pick me up.  I used to get a ride from time to time. Thank you to late Mrs. W for giving me rides home. You always had a smile so I guess at that time you were my hero. You did not have a cape you just did something to be nice to a little girl who was your neighbor. I will never forget that.

If you are lucky enough to find your hero do not ever forget to say thank you.

Now onto the next life lesson.

What is your out? What do you like to do that is just for you? It could be anything Maybe a cup of coffee outside, walk on the beach, Curl up with a good book, or binge watch or favorite old show. We all need something to keep us grounded. Something that makes us happy. Maybe no one knows your out and that is okay. We do not have to post everything to the whole world. I cannot stand that.

You must have something that you do that is just for you. We all do for others all day long what about you? We all need time for us.  I want to hear from you my readers. What is your out? Are you handy? Do you like house projects? Are you an artist or a writer?  I know my out it is my blog and my books. I love to write . I can create a character just by how I feel. It could be an antagonist or a protagonist or just a simple character that makes a cameo. I love my style the one thing I am really good at. I am proud of that.  I have not said that out loud. If only my book would sell more.

I believe it will because I believe in my writing. I love to create.  So tell me your story what do you like? I want to hear from you .  What have you created? What is on your mind? Go deep within your soul and open your heart find your OUT.

Now onto the next life lesson.

What is your dream? What do you actually want to do with your life? If you were given a wish what would you wish for? Oh wait don’t tell me than it won’t come true. Just keep trying and believing your hard work will pay off. Do you have many dreams or just ONE big one?  How will you make your dreams come true? What can you do to make it happen?  Do you need to go to college to accomplish this dream? Do you need mental or physical training? What is it that you need to do. I can tell you this do not give up on any of your dreams. Do not take NO for an answer. DO not give up.  Do not say I can’t. Those are all examples of people who would have given up if they had  listened to those haters and non believers. You are a believer and dreamer. Have faith and you can do anything.  Can you imagine if our founding fathers had given up? Can you imagine if Michael Jordan never played basketball? Can you imagine if the Wright brothers gave up? Exactly, so do not ever give up no matter what your dream is.  Now onto the next life lesson.

Was life more simple when you were a kid? Do you remember how much fun you had. We played outside and we had fun. You came in the house when the streets lights came on or your mom yelled “dinner” Those were the days. Now kids on are their phones, and playing video games. What happened to socializing? With everything going on I think God is trying to send us a message. He is saying remember how simple and fun things were. Everyone is in such a rush. Well, if you have to stay home then you are not in a rush. Dust off of those board games, get out those books you always wanted to read, Do that project you have been putting off. Most of all listen and spend time with your family and talk. Talk to each other, Put the phones down and talk. You may learn something new.

Now people are so busy and following routines and schedules. I am sure they did back then we all did. We have gotten so caught up in our lives we start to lose sight on the importance of listening and talking to each other.  We are all here so let’s get comfortable and talk. How about it let’s hear what you have to say.

The good old days are still here we just have to make time for them. Now onto the next life lesson.

You can get creative and do fun things with your family. Bring back Candy Land, shoots and ladders, even Backgammon.  We can all use some down time and time with our families. Yes, this is getting frustrating but there is always something to de clutter, clean out, or bake, or organize, The most important thing is do not lose faith. DO NOT give up. God will come through and give us all strength. Just take it one day at a time. Remember how blessed we are to be healthy and have our loved ones with us.

Read a good book or binge on Netflix. Whatever you do make it fun and creative. There is always time to discover new things practice things that we are not good at.   Who knows you could master a skill you never thought you would.

Now onto the next life lesson.

Someone once said that no matter what you do in life you gotta have heart. You have to put your heart and soul into everything you do.  If you do you will be successful. Now success does not happen over night . It takes time and hard work and heart.

Life has it’s ups and downs but no matter what your faith and your heart will get you through it. You just have to have to believe. Did we stop believing? I think when times are tough people only see the bad and what is going on around them.  There is more to see than what is right in front of you. You have all these gifts and blessings.

I think God is telling us something. I think he is sending us a message. I think he is saying take care of yourself and your loved ones. Take care of this world. Be kind and patient. Look at all the beauty I created for everyone to enjoy.   Pay attention, look around, open your heart, choose kind. and remember YOU matter.  Let me know how it goes.

Now onto the next life lesson.

Are you doing stuff that you have put off? Are you learning new things that you have always wanted to learn? What have you been doing besides trying to work and manage your home? What projects have you started? Have you reorganized your stuff in your home? Are you de cluttering? What has been your main goal that you have achieved so far? I have been home schooling. cleaning the house more. and my next project is to reorganize a drawer or two in one of my daughters rooms.  In the mean time we need to hang in there and use common sense. This is the time to work on things that we have put off or we need to learn. What are your goals? What do you hope to achieve besides not going crazy.  Let’s not forget God is here and he will get us through this. Pray and faith that is what we have. Now onto the next life lesson.

Hello,  and I hope you all had a very nice holiday. What did you do? Were you able to celebrate? Of course you were because we always find away no matter what. Even if you did a virtual Easter or Passover you found   a way. I do not know about you but I am trying to have faith and trying NOT to talk about the invisible enemy. I cannot stand it. Maybe it is partly because I cannot ask my Dad what to do. I can’t ask his advice or just hear him say it will pass or something. I am sick of everyone saying stay safe I just say stay well. I am sorry if I sound angry but just say have a great day. Look at the bright side. you are with your family in your home. It may not be ideal.  Why not just be nice and act kindly to others talk about something positive and think about other things. Be creative. Find out how you can make a difference. Call someone you have not spoken to in awhile and say hello. You can ‘t say you are to busy. YOU have the time.  I want to see positive things. I am tired of all this. I am doing my best to live my life and care for my family. I do not have all control but I have some and I will take it and run with it. BUT  I will NOT talk about the invisible enemy. Let’s talk how we always do. We cannot be together but we can talk. So bring on the coffee or tea I am ready. Now onto the next life lesson.

Right now we are team America and we are fighting a invisible enemy. It is crazy. I wonder where is God? He is here and I think he is teaching us a lesson about life and death. I think he is telling us to listen and pay attention to what is around us. He believes in us and he will get us through this.

All of that said. I think we need to THINK GOD. We need to talk to him more acknowledge his presence. Believe in him again or start to believe in him. He needs us and we need him.

What are you doing to keep well? What are you doing with your family? Are you happy to he home? I am happy to he with my family but i want my kids back in school. I want this to be over and time and life to continue. Time will not stop and all things considered life is good. We just have to do the most simple thing and that is stay home.  After all we are lucky to be healthy and with our loves ones.

Now onto the next life lesson.

Who do you love? Are you married? Are you dating? You must have someone that you care about.  I hope whoever it is loves you back. I hope they treat you like gold. I hope you never let them go and vice versa. True love so hard to come by. To actually find your soulmate. Someone that you love with all of your heart. You trust them with everything. You confide in them and they confide in you. You are so lucky to have found that love. One day you realize that you only want to be with that person and you take that step and you say Yes, and then I do. You are official and you have each other for the rest of your lives. How does that feel? When you find the ONE you will know in you heart.  You have taken that step and you grow as a couple. You expand your family and your love. Now you have a family. You have the gift of love with your family. Hold on to that love it is rare .  He loves you and you love him and together you love your children, He puts both of you first. He holds you and you know you are safe. The bond you share is incredible. Hold onto that love. Work together and love each other. Now onto the next life lesson.