When you are talking to someone you need to be crystal clear. You have to be specific on what you mean. You must let the person know your exact intentions otherwise miscommunication n will occur. You run into you said , I said. What did you mean? Please clarify. You may want to put it in writing to back yourself up, Things get misinterpreted all the time. Make sure you have a plan. Make sure the other person understands what you need them to do. You must always CYA in the world. It is a cruel world and people love to doubt one another and play against one another for the sure glory of feeling undefeated and in control. How does this help anyone? It does not. Make sure you surround yourself with people that make you feel good about you. Negative people and manipulators have no point in your life. Do not let yourself get angry easily. Let the small stuff go easier said than done I know. But try it and I promise you will feel better. You might want to take some deep breaths, write down why you are angry and try and make peace with it . You may want to talk to someone to vent if none of those work try a professional. Please get your anger in check for your sake and for others. Thank you for reading my blog. Now onto the next life lesson.